The Importance of Order in Relationships

If you dispense with the idea of free will, how is it you organize your relationship to yourself? So I believe strongly that we have free will, that we're responsible for our choices. Those choices are constrained in many, many ways. There's a gradient of free will from free out into the future to increasingly constrained as the present manifested itself to deterministic in the moment. We might think that we entered the realm of deterministic causality at the moment of action, something like that.