How to Adopt the Power of the Coquette

Coquettes are masters of selective withdrawal, hint at coldness to keep their victim off balance. Familiarity undermines what we have built a bout of distance and engages the emotions further. Sigmund freud characterized the narcissistic woman most often obsessed with her appearance as the type with the greatest effect on men. A man is also challenged by the female coquette's independence. He wants to be the one to make her dependent, to burst her bubble. But he will end up becoming her slave, giving her incessant attention to gain her love - and failing. For the narcisistic woman is not emotionally needy. She is self sufficient, and this is surprisingly seductive.