Most of these parents are villainizing success okay and the reason they're villainizing success is because they weren't able to create any and they feel inadequate. Instead of teaching their kids and being honest with their kids I actually posted about this a few days ago there was a quote on one of these motivation pages it says imagine telling your kids the reason that you quit was because it was too hard. And over and over again like you you parents out there you must realize that you are handicapping your children by not telling them the truth about way things are.