Stephanie Coontz: Do you see any good, con porary, public models for compromise? She suggests that to morrow morning i can wake up and have my coffee with half and half and no sugar. But in fact, she says, i have to add this horrible, metabolism busting sugar to my coffee. Tomorrows drink will be a slightly larger pases of sugar all day, every day. Ugh. I am willing to put sugar in my coffee to morrow, one teaspoon for one day. You're willing to take sugar out of your coffee to MORROW? One teaspoon for oneday. And if you don't get a tex from me