Are There Any Boundaries That Are Too Extreme?

"I want your therapist there conditioning you, preparing you. I want you to get what you're looking for," Jobin says. "If you just go blundering into the situation, trying to do what you're proposing here with nuclear boundaries and talking, you know, telling, confronting your abuser, I don't think you go more than one round." He adds that he loves the passion of people who have ADHD but wants to focus on helping them channel it in a positive way.