i believe that iam acting on my destiny, you know. An act like that, an act of going on pilgrimage, has the power to change your destiny. And so we should think very carefully about what pilgrimages we go on in life and why we're doing them. There were some people that i knew growing up who were grateful dead fans, fans of the grateful dead rock group. Rylee garcil was one. So when they, they would follow the grateful dead around, in a certain way,. They were dedicating themselves to something and making themselves a part of a community.