Do You Wet the Bristles First?

Mike's wife, kim, has some weirdseas around brushing her teeth that i cannot abide first is how she puts on the tooth paste. She, like a monster, puts the tooth paste on, then wets the bristles. Second, and where i have more standing, is her habit of brushing her teeth first thing after waking up. I feel li she can't adequately provide me taste feedback if she's brushing her teeth immediately before drinking the coffee.