The Way to Call Someone Out Is to Take Ownership of Your Fallibility

The way to call someone out is take ownership of your own fallibility. When i'm having a chat with one of the lads, one of my bodies, if i notice that they are consistently saying homophobic things, or consistently saying things that are transporbic or racest I open the conversation by admitting to them that i've used to say things that are homo because it's a fact. "I grew up in a society that was transformic, homopormic, i can't pronounce the falkof words, transforbic," he says.