What Do You Tell Husbands and Wives?

Wander: It's all about expectations. So many people don't, cause we want to set higher expectations for our spouse because they're supposed to be at this higher level. But what that means is we're just consistently going to be mad because they're not going to meet it. And then the second thing is you've got to communicate your expectations. Cause if your husband doesn't know that you're mad every night because he's not voluntarily getting up to do the dishes, how is he going to be able to correct that behaviour? I want to show up and be a better version of myself, and i know that doing the dishes helps that.