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383 | Heartbreak

The Minimalists

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My Ex's Choices Reflect My Value

We put our ex on a pedestal and idealize them. We think that their comments, thoughts, opinions are valid. And so if they don't like something you're wearing, something you say, something you like, your way of being in the world, it feels like a personal attack. It feels like somehow you are diminished.

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