How to Live in a Major City?

To really understand what it's like, you have to live somewhere to understand if you're going to like it or not. I've had such few bad experiences living here that i can't even really remember much of them. We don't have the typical nine to five world like lifesty. Also, the traffic is usually not that bad,. If you can't find ten people in a city of ten million that click with you and connect with yor or your values then it's probably probably you that's the problem.