An anxious person myself, uncertainty is really the enemy. It's very tempting to just want a feeling to go away and you think, well, what can I do to make this go away? But oftentimes what we need to do is just sit with the feeling, accept the feeling. If there's anything to learn from it, learn from it and not act right away, you know, and then allow space for clarity to come in.
Forrest and Lori Deschene, founder of TinyBuddha.com, explore how we can learn to manage paralyzing experiences of anxiety and worry. This includes focusing on what you can control, limiting responsibility to a comfortable level, and developing comfort with uncertainty.
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Timestamps:
2:30: What was the inspiration behind Tiny Buddha?
5:30: Has engaging with self-help made you personally happier?
7:45: Worrying about being enough.
12:10: Focusing on what you can control
14:00: Recognizing your own strength.
15:25: Using creative activities.
18:20: Returning to childlike joy.
21:45: Limiting responsibility to a comfortable level.
26:00: Acknowledging your everyday accomplishments.
27:30: Developing comfort with uncertainty.
32:00: Being honest with yourself.
34:00: Recap
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