Balby discovered that when care givers give us inconsistent a responses to our need for affection, we end up as anxious ambivolent. For the people with secure attachment, every time i get hurt, mam is there and is comforting. For insecure attachment, ah, it can be gets a little bit comlicated but generally, saying speaking, we can say that mam is not very comforting. And then the last category of people, so, like, they sort of remain independent in the lastcategory of people, or have insecure attachments.