How Do I Love My Wife?

I can be stubborn and passive, aggressive and selfish but i do love her. She's quite ill with different diseases and needs a lot of rest. But she's been on the brink of death a few times. It's when you want what's best for the other that it becomes important. Do you have any thoughts about saint thomas's just war theory? You could check out my free course, strive 21 dot com. I would pray to purify those things.