The Evolution of Desire

How do you know that at least in the beginning, this is somebody that isn't treating enough for you to work with? Yeah. None of this is by my own, like, conscious decision. It's just, it's an internal, it's, there's been an, an evolution towards that and that, that it just like the desire doesn't really exist. So the person really has to be wanting the truth and be sincere and, you know, no excuses or anything else.