How Do You Respond to Negative Behavior?

How do you respond to negative behavior without appearing to reward it by the attention that you did it? Here's what i see happening in this home. I want your son out of this whole mode of thinking. So a 12, 14, 16-year-old boy or girl hear's how i'm going to respons them when they roll their eyes when they talk back and see if this language makes sense. Ill use the name jacob. Listen, jacob, you're right. I'm not the boss of you. You're the boss ofyou, which means you need to be response for yourself. It's not my job to control you. But here's what i