Hard truths about love | Jillian Turecki
The Proof with Simon Hill
Intro
This chapter explores the idea that love is not just a feeling, but an active, daily commitment. It emphasizes the importance of effort, communication, and prioritizing a partner's needs to cultivate genuine love.
Episode #348. Love isn’t just a feeling – it’s a skill. Relationship coach Jillian Turecki joins me to explore the habits, mindsets, and tools you need to build and sustain meaningful love.
We explore the role of self-esteem, how to navigate conflict, and what makes a relationship worth fighting for. Packed with insights on compatibility, healthy communication, and cultivating love, this episode offers practical advice for every stage of your relationship journey.
Specifically, we discuss:
- Love is a daily practice: How can we build it? (0:00)
- Understanding relationship breakdowns (8:18)
- How self-love shapes relationships (11:06)
- Challenges of loving ourselves (16:18)
- How to navigate conflict effectively (34:51)
- Addressing commitment and anxiety in love (40:00)
- When should you discuss your needs in a relationship? (43:44)
- The difference between connection and relationship (46:54)
- How to master conflict repair (49:48)
- Giving effective feedback in relationships (52:52)
- How to know when it’s time to leave (1:03:25)
- The rewards of a healthy relationship (1:09:45)
- Outro (1:14:50)
Jillian Turecki’s book, It Begins With You, is available here. Connect with her on Instagram, Twitter/X, and TikTok. Learn more about Jillian and discover her courses at https://www.jillianturecki.com/. Listen to Episode #273 with Jillian here.
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