Episode 43: How To STOP Getting Distracted During Sex!
Pillow Talks
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Are You Hard in Order for You to Have Sex?
I know for myself, I have felt frustration or worry around my erection when we're having sex. There's this feeling as a man that you can get of sort of being the sexual gatekeeper in order for us to have sex, I need to be hard. And then if all of a sudden you are no longer hard or you feel yourself losing that erection, like it's a challenging feeling to have in the moment. If you've never talked about it, it's really easy to just think that's the only way it goes. You don't need to have an erection in order for your partner to get pleasure.
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