Is There a Time for Grief?

Iean: It's something i mean, i neverhad told anybody about that before. And it brings to my mind your discussion in your book about grief and about the difficulty of first finding the time for grief. The thing about stars is they can only be seen in the dark. Do we even have time for grief? When we're setting up for the various people and do his medical care and arrange for his meals and all the things that we end up doing, do we even have the time for that grief? If not, then when do we get that luxury?