I Need Gandolph in the Battle for My Marriage

When i'm seeking god in marriage, when iam in the battle for my marriage and my family, i need friends around me. I meet with bill twice a month. He encourages me. He asks me hard questions. Are you loving your wife? are you loving your kids? Are you taking your days off? Are you resting? Twice a week. My wife and i we're meeting with with a couple from another church in town,. helping us through stuff, helping us through our struggles and our pain and our wounds. Marriage is painful. But sometimes it's just om foring to turn around and see gandolph. Sometimes i need gandolph the gray or the white or