How Do You Let Go of Your Needs or Request?

In non violent communication, you have to not be addicted to your request. It's not as permissiveness. We have to tolerate getting our needs at home. How do you let go of wanting something to be done like you haveit? I have a need for order, and i would like the bath s to be clean. How do i let go without actually having it to be done, so that it's a clean request?"