"I got torn apart in the comment section. I over simplified a very complex topic," he says. "We're not acknowledging that a big part of male vulnerability comes with action requirements from people who are not identifying as men." 'If i don't feel safe and in order to confide in you with my deepest, darkest vone abilities and personal things that i'm insecure ot, then i don't think i can ever truly fully give you me,' she adds. "'There's probably a better but there's no like one sized fitzov' is what abba and preach talked about,'" John writes.