Game of Thrones - Episode 3 - Theon Greyjoy

A character on game of thrones loses his identity after being beaten into submission. Theon greyjoy becomes known as reek, and that's what he's referred to a for a few seasons thereafter. We tend to lose our identities in the scenarios that happen to us,. But just like teon greyjoy, you are separate from the things that happen to you. Both the good and the bad don't define you.