The chapter discusses the fear of being judged and criticized by others, particularly the fear of feeling stupid and incompetent. It explores the idea that these fears are just narratives we tell ourselves and that the feeling of being stupid is merely a sensation in the body. The conversation also touches on the pressure to have our children reflect well on us and the anxiety that accompanies these feelings.
Fear often keeps us from diving into what we really care about, nudging us to play it safe instead. But this safety net leaves us feeling like we haven't accomplished much. Ironically, avoiding fear just makes us feel worse about ourselves. But here's the twist: we can change that narrative. We have the power to use fear to make us stronger and help us grow.
In this coaching session, I team up with Dave, a psychologist with a passion for music. Together, we'll dive into how fear prevents us from pursuing our dreams. We'll examine how avoiding fear can make us feel unfulfilled and doubt ourselves. But most importantly, we'll reveal how we can break free from this cycle.
This conversation isn’t just about conquering fear; it's about understanding it, facing its challenges, and using it as a tool for growth. We'll delve into the complexities of fear, self-belief, and the courage needed to pursue our creative aspirations.
Topics Covered
- Acknowledging the impact of fear on actions and decision-making
- Understanding avoidance and its effects on personal fulfillment
- Examining fear narratives and patterns influencing behavior and self-perception
- Exploring the discomfort stemming from avoiding fear in creative pursuits
- Strategies for breaking free from the cycle of fear and self-doubt
- Using fear as a tool for personal growth and resilience
- The significance of self-trust in overcoming fear and doubt
- The interplay between fear, self-belief, and creative aspirations
- Cultivating resilience through a newfound understanding of fear's dynamics
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Transcript
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Credits
Music: Salem Beladonna & Robrecht Dumarey
Editor: Justin Cruz
Post-production: Diana C. Guzmán Caro & Amanda Goddard