How to Deal With Male Platoonfriends

Tucker: It's especially tricky because it sounds like this guy, you know, started out as like pretty good but dramatically improved his attractiveness by kind of taking our advice and learning stuff. And so if he's had female platonic friends for a while who kind of thought of him in a non-sexual way before. But suddenly everything changes. He's got the social proof and then they're going to see him in a whole different way. You don't want to just self-handicap and go, okay, I'm going to be slovenly lazy and boring just so my girlfriend's not threatened by my newfound masculine superpowers.