As a coach, as you model a certain approach to failure, they will start to like, pick up on that. The goal of coaching is to have your client no longer need to come and why is that? How does that work? It's because the process that you do with them, they're able to like, do on their om. They like o ship quite like yet. Our expressing compassion. Hey, by the way, you don't have to beat yourself up. What's up with that? Where does that come from? I'm noticing that. Then you ask the next question, if you actually believe you're a failure and you expect to fail, what do you think