I Feel Pain, Because I Wanted to Connect With You Too

When she was say, inem, i feel pain, because i wanted to connect with you too. That is feelings and needs. And i guess my question is, how important is it to try to stickt stick with the structure of feelings and needs? Or does that meet the intent and the spirit of it? So you don't have be so compulsive about the, you know, about the form of it, you know? I mean, yes.