How Do You Figure Out What You Want in Life?

When I was writing introspect for example right I started out trying to answer the question of how do you figure out what you want in life or like just like what people keep asking me. It's not necessarily a universally wrong question but it's typically a wrong question because um and the way I would approach explaining that is like very young children very very seldom have a problem explaining what they want. People get detached from their desires and then what happens is some people start to try and intellectualizelike oh what what would I like to desire or what you know what what desires would be lucrative or whatever. That thing is not connected to the core personal drive so it's almost a distraction from the truth