Family estrangement is rising, but the cultural story behind it is far more complex than “cutting off toxic people.” In this episode, Savannah and Lee unpack the social, psychological, and technological shifts that quietly reshaped our expectations of family. and why forgiveness, repair, and humility might be the most countercultural practices left.
In this episode, Savannah and Lee dig into the cultural forces behind the surge in family estrangement, from postmodern distrust of authority to therapy-speak, safetyism, digital overwhelm, and the luxury of disconnection. Drawing on Rachel Haack’s Substack newsletter, they explore how concept creep, para-connection, and wealth have shaped our expectations of parents, children, and in-laws, and why privilege can make cutting off family easier than repairing them. Together they reflect on the emotional weight, legitimate complexities, and real pain inside estrangement, before ending with a conversation on forgiveness…not as excusing harm, but as a courageous path towards freedom.
Things we mentioned in this episode:
Labubu Pendant Blind Box
James by Percival Everett
Why Everyone’s Cutting Everyone Off: The Cultural Story Behind Family Estrangement
David Schnarch's books
That All Shall Be Saved: Heaven, Hell, and Universal Salvation by David Bentley Hart
The Pastor: A Crisis by Bradley Jersak and Wm. Paul Young
Why Concepts Creep to the Left by Jonathan Haidt
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