How to Attract Gentlemen Who Are Different From You

Don't settle for someone who has the first three, but doesn't have the kind part. Don't overvalue anyone who comes along who is driven, motivated and ambitious, but isn't kind because that's where you'll get yourself into a lot of trouble. Sometimes I hear from people who feel like they're always attracting the wrong people. But what I later find is that those are the people they feel comfortable with. They don't want to stick their neck out to talk to someone or try to attract someone more challenging than them.