How Is It Bad That Someone Thinks You're Stupid?

If you have a fear of gathering around others, like a social anxiety, because you might fear being judged. Why do i have this fear of being judged? Well, maybe if somebody judges me, i'll feel like i'm not worthy or important or attractive or whatever. And again, don't put the comment out there that says, well, any one would feel bad, because that automatically puts you into denial. We can put ourselves into state of denial by not allowing ourselves to have thoughts that are specific to us.