"I don't know who I heard this from, but I write results lists. Like, what's the result you want, not the thing you have to do?" she said. "If you focus on the result, you can come up with 50 different ways to get to the result that aren't bogged down by all of this other crap" She says women often put off pursuing their dreams because they're too worried about what others will think. 'We need to call BS,' her mother-in-law told her.