How Can Poly Couples Have Healthy Sexual Relationships?

A lot of women steer away from B.J.'s, but it's in your guys' control to guide her and tell her, hey, like try to do this or, oh, I love when you just lick the head, you know? So that might be a good place to start because you want to relax so that she can breathe and she can actually enjoy it. Next question: How can I help my wife regain her confidence about herself to have sex again after putting weight back?