The Importance of Speaking to People Directly and Privately

Last summer I was in France for vacation and I was actually in the Musee d'Orse. Someone sent me an article that this girl wrote about me for her sub stack. She was a small writer but she had published this one essay about me that was really hurt my feelings. In it she just like made all these like character assassinations about me saying she didn't like anything that I put out. It wasn't just about my content, it was about me which I I saw read like when I read this thing and I posted it on my story just like as a snap no thought process went into it. But what I didn't think about was how people would come at her