How to Use Urgency to Motivate Your Kids

urgency comes in two forms. One is like, oh, my gosh, this is due. I got to make sure I get it done. The other is more of a convex fear base that of,Oh, my golly, I'm going to get in trouble if I don't do this. And so many of our kids use this, but it can be really exhausting and it's not sustainable.