How Do I Feel?

The first level of erotic attention is with both ourselves and with one another. We have to get in touch with, how am i feeling right now? How's my body feeling? How did lunch sit with me? How much energy do i have? Do i want to start with like, long, slow lxurious message and then see how we feel? Or am i ready to get thrown over the bed, spanked and falked, like right away? That's a big skill set, and the better we can get at it, the more we can get what we want and need.