How to Recover From Misfortune?

i've always tried to train myself to be curious about my misfortune in some ways, not like, why did this happen to me? But what will i do now, given the circumstances? So i tinke. I was used to being wrong and like, humiliated so often, like growing up, and specially, no gettng things wrong. And with a little luck, you know, it's not i went from the flood into a dream job, and went from the Flood into a different kind of hell. The idea of asking people for help wasn't necessarily something foreign to me. Once you get over your pride, that was helpful, because people love to help. You know,