How Do You Feel When You Say These Things?

"I feel angry and disappointed. And what need of yours isn't met by this person's behaviormy need for harmony?" "Would you like to find a way in which we, as a group can work better together? So we gin to be alibit more specific," says the boss. 'If he still feels any trace that he's not understood or valued for what he did, it's going to be hard for him to learn'