How Does Abundance Mentality Factor in to Success?

Scott Adams: How can we check our natural tendencies to be scarce and replace them with an abundance mind set? It is a mind set to go into every conversation, whether you want to be right or do what's right. You'll never have enough carriy until you've defined how much is enough,. fame, credit, love, worth, budget, share, money. But i would say going into every situation asking yourself, how can both of us win? What do i know the other persons win? Do i know what is a successful outcome? Have they asked me? What is my win? And that's not a healthy lationship either.