The Importance of Intensity in Communication

A lot of people think the social game is about energy when in fact it is about intensity. The difference between energy and intensity is that of impact. When I say my name is Prachar, I'm throwing it at you, such that the impact of those words is a lot more. This is the fallacy that the extroverts fall into. They confuse being energetic for being social. It's to be more intense in your communication. And this idea of confusing the energy of a conversation with the intensity of a conversation creates social victories rather than intensity.