Is Doctor Chavali's Advice to Felaki Provocative?

I asked doctor chavali whether folaki might suffer terribly if becoming so assertive means she is ostred or cut off from them. We grow up with this voice as women, and we internalize it so much so now it becomes own voice. The toxic patriarchy doesn't just subjugate the women, children, people of color, earth and animals. It so ironically subjugates the men too. Felaki shouldn't have to face this deep, dire consequential punishment, that either she follows her heart or she follows them. I will just try to implement and show the de new folake, little by little, too to the real folake,little by little, to two people.