If you find yourself in a position where a coworker is coming on to you romantically and it's making you uncomfortable, what do you say? Okay. Well, I've been there and what I've said is stop. You're really, really making me uncomfortable. And maybe if someone does say, hey do you want to get a drink after work, a male colleague, you could respond in a way that clarifies that says, if you're talking about having a drink and talking about work, I'd love that resounding yes. If you'retalking about something, you know, a little more romantic, I just want to be clear I'm not interested in anything but a