Finding Love in a Fringe Cane Community

I'm not sure exactly what a diaper kink can tell, but I would love to know where it becomes a kink. The other obvious one that dovetails into it is how does one discover that this is their thing? Those are the two big ones. Um, they can start kind of young. It just kind of imprints on your, on your psyche in some kind of way. And then you don't really, you've got some spring and attraction to it. But yeah, it's like lingerie, it's the best for me.