What Are the Things You Can Control?

How do you deal with that, mentally, when you're putting in the same work but the results aren't there? Where do you go mentally to get yourself to the point of saying, it's not my fault, or what do you what is your mental t luplike? So this point, it doesn't really affect me all that much, because i've been through this before. I just got a focus on what i can control and, you know, enjoy my life.