Deconversion Isn't the Cool Thing to Do

In the first chapter, deconstruction is characterized as essentially a selfish act. This is a very common way of seeing people who are deconstructing. I find this to be pretty ironic for a number of reasons. Most deconstructing christians have a lot of doubt in their own reasoning. And that's precisely what led them to where they are. They began to take a critical look,. not simply at christianity itself but also to their adherents to it.