Im Feeling More in Control When You're Out of Control

The basic paradox is that out of suffering and trama comes something worth while or beneficial. People often come to understand that events that happen to them, even though they're,. they're terrible in a way, can yield some kind of understanding or knowledge or enlightenmenth That's kind of paradoxical. And so much of the work i've been doing in this are of postomatic growth requires us to think paradoxically about thingsyou now, the basic paradox you're talking about  isn't it interesting to me when i hear you say that?