"It felt kind of like a trap, but at the same time felt like a soothing warm blanket to feel safe and ruminate within."
"The codependent relationship is filled with drama. There is blaming, a victim and the rescuer/protector. That rescuer is filled with needing to be needed. That’s where it began for me."
"It was years of trying as hard as I could to make things better but never being good enough to matter how hard I tried."
The word "codependence" gets thrown around a lot, but it's not always clear what it means. How do you know if you're codependent? How do you know if your partner is codependent? Can one person be codependent while the other isn't?
Here we delve into our own personal experiences of codependency, as well as the experiences of some of our clients. We aim to provide clarity on codependent dynamics and how to overcome them.
In Jason's words, "Too many men stay in a place of perpetual suffering." If your love relationships have never felt quite right -- if they've always felt off, or you've felt like you were just taking care of your partner (she couldn't take care of herself), or you've never felt like you could get it right with your partner (nothing was ever enough), this will be relevant for you.
A lot of the men we work with are aching for MORE, and I just want to say -- that's available. You don't have to stay stuck. Growth is always possible.
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Memorable quotes from this episode:
- “We’re deeply entwined with each other where there’s almost no agency or independence.”
- “While the relationship was ‘safe’, we were both suffering deeply inside.”
- “As long as my partner was approving of me, there was a sense of, ‘I’m OK.’”
- “There was a fear — if I’m not with her, I’ll be alone.”
