How to Deal With Toxic Shame

When you see pornography move across a screen, the images are so novel, so powerful, instantly a certain combination of cells in your brain fires. And with the man, he has to go masturbate. He can't reason through it because it immediately goes beyond his prefrontal cortex straight to the limbic system. So when you give him to your cravings, you give up on your reasoning. This is why so many men and women will make some of the dumbest, stupidest decisions walk away from a 30 year marriage,. 38% do because it's affected their very reasoning power.