How Do We Solve Problems?

"It was actually kind of unfair and premature for me to just judge you with that issue right away," he says. "Instead, like, how do we problems? And then once you develop a frame ... is it go to therapy, or is it talk things out between us?" 'You're both on the same level here, but you're having a meta level conversation,' he adds. "'If there's anything that i'm doing that is really concerning you, you can let me know' - so this is where they start recruiting them from problem solving."