Coaching Coaching - Is Your Clients Really Thinking?

The only way we kind of know what our clients are thinking and feeling is because they tell us but there's the extra step we need to put it through as is this what they're thinking. People are literally telling you that all of the time so you don't have to if your brain's like but how do I know it's like ask yourself how am I not listening to what people are already telling me yes. If you just like it moved through a day in a human life you're gonna hear all of the things your friends will be bitching about something rather than whining about their thing. You can write down verbatim  what were the exact words they used to whine about